Tired of Feeling Like There's Never Enough? Here’s How to Lower Monthly Bills
If you’re stressed about your finances, feel like you’re living paycheck to paycheck, constantly worry whether you'll have enough, or wish you had more money left to save or spend at the end of the month, you've probably wondered how you can lower your monthly bills.
When money is tight and life is busy, it’s normal to feel hopeless. With higher prices at the store and inflation in the news, it might feel like you don’t have any options and everything is stacked against you. You may think that the only way to get ahead is to pick up an extra job, give up everything you enjoy, or make all your meals from scratch at home. It’s overwhelming to figure out, and it doesn’t sound pleasant.
Besides, who has time for that? Between work, taking care of the kids, and managing everything else, your days are already full. When everything else feels more urgent, thinking about your budget falls to the bottom of the list.
But here’s the thing: that constant stress doesn’t go away on its own. Ignoring it might make things easier in the short term, but it doesn’t solve the problem. The good news? There are ways to lower your monthly bills that don’t require huge sacrifices or loads of time.
If that sounds familiar, this article is for you. Let’s look at some practical, realistic ways to reduce your monthly expenses so you can free up a little breathing room in your budget without upending your life.
How to Lower Monthly Bills: 4 Key Strategies
When it comes to lowering your bills, you really have four basic options. Let’s walk through each one and talk about how it might work for you.
1. Eliminate a Bill or Expense
(Wait, didn’t you just say I wouldn’t have to make big sacrifices, and now you’re telling me to eliminate things?)
Yes, it’s true—but stick with me.
First, if you’re in an extreme situation—like losing your job or realizing you’re spending significantly more than you earn—cutting things from your budget is one of the fastest and easiest ways to make an impact. Sometimes it’s just what you have to do.
BUT if that’s not your situation, you can still cut expenses in a way that doesn’t make you feel awful. The key is to look for things that aren’t really adding to your quality of life.
For example, did you sign up for Peacock during the Olympics and haven’t watched anything since the closing ceremonies? But you’re still paying for it every month. Cancel it!
See? Eliminating expenses doesn’t have to feel bad.
Action Item: Look through your credit card and bank statements from the past few months and find items you’re not using or not using enough to justify the cost. Cancel those! You can also use an app or service to help identify subscriptions you may have forgotten about. One that’s frequently recommended is RocketMoney. You can use the free version to identify subscriptions, or if you prefer, you can manually review your bank and credit card statements over the last year.
2. Reduce Usage
Another way to lower your bills is by cutting back on how much you use. This is especially effective with bills based on consumption, like utilities or gas. If your electric bill is high, small changes like turning off lights when you leave a room, using energy-efficient bulbs, or adjusting your thermostat can help. Water bills can be lowered by taking shorter showers, fixing leaks, or running the dishwasher efficiently.
This strategy isn’t just for utilities—look at other areas where you might cut back. If you’re spending a lot on gas, could you combine errands, carpool, or walk when possible? Even reducing how often you eat out or take your kids for snacks can add up over time. It’s about cutting down on what you consume without completely eliminating the things you enjoy.
Action Item: Keep a spending diary for a month and notice if there are things where you are:
Spending more than you thought
Spending on things that make you feel annoyed
Identify one or two areas where you could cut back without much sacrifice.
Example:
After tracking their spending, my financial coaching clients often come to me and say things like “I didn’t realize we were spending so much on clothes” (or whatever it is for them). When they see how much they actually spend, it often motivates them to cut back because they’d rather be using that money for other things.
3. Find Cheaper Alternatives
Sometimes, lowering a bill is as simple as finding a less expensive way to get what you need. You’re not reducing how much you use—you’re just finding a cheaper way to get it.
For example, many services have budget-friendly options that are just as good as the premium ones. You can switch to a lower-cost phone plan, find generic products, or shop at a discount grocery store to make a significant difference.
One of my favorite ways to do this is to shop around for home or auto insurance. Companies often rely on the fact that most people are too busy or distracted to question their bills. You may notice a rate increase but not do anything about it. Over time, these increases add up. Every few years, it’s worth shopping around to ensure you’re getting the best deal.
The same goes for internet and cable providers—if you have more than one option in your area.
And don’t underestimate the power of free! Libraries offer access to books, movies, and even digital services, while free workout apps can replace paid fitness classes. Free doesn’t always mean lower quality—it’s just a different option.
Action Item: Choose one or two bills and spend a little time researching alternative options.
Bonus Tip: Make sure you’re not overpaying for what you use. For example, if you mainly use your phone at home, do you really need unlimited data? A limited plan could save you money without changing your habits.
4. Negotiate Your Bills
Before you run away, hear me out—I’m not a fan of negotiating either. Many of us grew up in cultures where negotiation wasn’t the norm, especially for women, who are often socialized to believe they shouldn’t ask for what they want (or deserve). So I get it.
But I’m going to give you a few tips for negotiating your bills that anyone can handle, even if it feels uncomfortable.
Before You Negotiate:
Be polite. You need to talk to a real person, and being rude won’t help.
Prepare in advance. Build your case and practice your conversation for a better chance at success.
Steps:
Identify your options. Approach the negotiation from a position of power. Research other providers or options and see if they’re offering lower rates. Figure out if your current provider offers a lower rate or if you’re paying for features you don’t use.
Call the company. Ask if there are any discounts or promotions available. Be prepared for them to say no. Mention that you’re considering switching or canceling.
Escalate to the cancellation department. Tell them you’d like to cancel because you found a lower rate elsewhere or for another reason you identified.
Be prepared to follow through if needed. If there’s only one provider in your area, your options may be limited, but it never hurts to ask. The worst they can say is no.
Other Bills You Can Negotiate
Insurance companies and cable providers aren’t the only ones who might be willing to negotiate. Using similar tactics, you may be able to lower your rent, get a better credit card interest rate, or ask for a hardship payment plan/solution on medical bills.
Again, be polite, tell them you want to work with them and/or stick with them, and kindly explain why it is in their benefit to give you what you want.
Action Item: Pick one bill, research alternatives, and try negotiating!
Final Thoughts
Lowering your monthly bills doesn’t have to mean giving up everything you love or living on the bare minimum. By eliminating what you don’t need, cutting back on usage, finding cheaper alternatives, and negotiating better rates, you can create some breathing room in your budget without feeling deprived.
Start with one or two strategies that will make the biggest impact with the least effort. Small changes can add up, and less financial stress means more peace of mind and flexibility to enjoy the things that matter most.
